My Open Letter sa Lalaking Bigay ni God Sakin

My Open Letter sa Lalaking Bigay ni God Sakin:

Kamusta ka na? I'm wondering if you're okay now..
Masaya ka ba ngayon o umiiyak ka pa rin?
But above all, I hope you're too busy building up yourself to become the best man that you could ever be..

Habang di pa tayo nagkikita sana God is giving you frequent tests to strengthen your patience.. Topakin kasi ako at ang pride ko abot langit!

Sana maturuan mo 'ko..
Turuan mo 'ko sa mga bagay na di ko pa alam..
Di ko pa kasi alam magtiwala at di ko rin alam mag mahal ng may tinitira sa sarili..

Sana maintindihan mo 'ko..
Intindihin mo na madami akong drama at kaarterhan sa katawan..
wag kang mairita, kasi mahal na mahal ko ang sarili ko..
Masaya ako pag nag memake up ako, nag lolotion, nagpapabango at kung ano-ano pa..
May mga pagkakatyaon na pag nasa mall tayo bibili ako ng ga bagay na nagustuhan ko lang..
Mahilig akong mamasyal at mag try ng bago..
At wag mong silang  aalisin sakin kasi yan ang mga bagay na nagpapasaya sakin.. 

 May mga araw na ipagluluto kita... alam ko rin na may mga pagkakataong hindi masarap ang mga lulutuin ko so its up to you kung pano ako i-cheer up..

Ngayon pa lang magsosorry na ako ha.. kasi baka pagdating mo, di kita agad pansinin.. tsagain mo lang ako.. alam mo na, ayaw ko na kasing magmadali.. baka mali nanaman ee.. hehe.. Hindi ako perfect.. marami akong insecurities sa katawan.. immature ako minsan.. Pero sana mag stay ka no matter what..

Pagdating mo sana okay na ako.. Ready na ulit.. Para hindi rin unfair sayo.. Ingat ka ha.. Mahalin mo sarili mo and pray lang tayo kay God.. Magkikita rin tayo... Hihintayin kita.. ;)

I Love you Goodbye Sir

I love the way you smile.. I love those sincere stares whether you're  making a joke or just sharing something.. The touch of your nose for every kiss that gives me chills.. and how you eagerly reach and hold my hand for a long time..You saw me in almost every way that I should be seen... and the most important thing is, you stayed...

Naalala mo? Nung una akong umalis sayo? How I wish wala kang girlfriend that time.. Kasi kung wala, I know I would have chose you instead... na until now, I still feel the guilt because I left. Pero naalala mo ba? Sa mga times na nahihirapan ako, I still long to reach you out... Kasi I know you know what's better for me.. I can hear something good from you.. Nakikinig ako sayo kasi I look up on you.. ganun kasi kita inaidolized (haha). Kaso nung mga times na wala ako sayo, marami na rin palang nangyari, that somehow changed your perspectives in life. Di ko alam kung sino nagbago satin. But one thing is for sure..May nagbago.

For the times that I need a shoulder to lean on nanjan ka, thank you... I'm sorry kasi parang naging sponge ka, ikaw nag absorb lahat ng hatred ko... pero thank you parin kasi kung di mo ginawa yun, baka napabayaan ko na ang sarili ko... From that moment sinabi ko sa sarili ko na kung magmamahal ako ulit, it will be you na.. pero hindi pala ganun kadali yun... kasi nag iba na ang standard nating dalawa... I keep on wanting more from you... na parang unfair sayo kasi baka yun na ang full effort mo... I love you... but I dont know how deep it is... 

I think God's telling something... Tapos na ba ang role natin sa isa't isa? Do you still want to be with the confused me? Date the uncertain one? To be with the one who wants more from you? I think hindi na kasi healthy tong relationship natin.. Ang unfair para sayo... at ayaw kong ganun.. Bye sir... I love you...But I don't want to use you... Hope you be with someone na made ni God para sayo... kung tayo..TAYO...in the right time...(kisses) till we meet again..hanggang dito na lang muna...

The Stronger Me

Hi, Isip Ipis is here again :)

Nagmahal, Nasaktan, Nagblog!!! (hahaha)

We tend to experience different kind of love in different kind person we chose to love...Marami na po akong minahal.. and every break up feels like the first time.. masakit... nakakabaliw.. nakakababa ng pagkatao.. "masama ba ako?" "walang kwenta?" "di talaga meant mahalin????!" "landian lang?" o "meant tumandang dalaga?" sa lahat ng tanong na yan, at the end of the day, I'm still broken... Talo si Isip Ipis..

Back to Zero. Gigising na lang at wala na lahat ng kinagisnan mo.. Lahat ng makita, naalala xa.. Masakit ulit.. nakakabaliw.. nakakainis.. pero ganun talaga.. nakakapagod at di mo malalaman kung kelan ka makakalimot.

Di ko na siya mahal. Nasasaktan lang ako kasi I feel so betrayed by the people na pinagkatiwalaan ko :)
There's a time na pag nalaman mo na yung totoo, mag coconnect na lahat at mabibigyan ng linaw "KUNG BAKIT" and by that time, you will feel disappointed because you've been with a person na di mo alam kung minahal ka or nagpapanggap lang na mahal ka niya. Yes minahal ka nya.. NOON. pero there's a time yung transition ng KAYO at BREAK UP nyo.. Nung mga time na yun, pinagpalit ka na nya.. (sad)

Pag nagmahal ako, sobra.. Pag nasaktan, sobra din.. Pagnagalit, mas sobra. Kaya kung ano-anong masasakit na salita na lang sinabi ko just to ease the pain.. Aba! unfair.. ako lang ang masakit ang loob? Magmumukmok? Habang siya masaya na sa iba (haha). Pero after the words that I said, hindi parin ako masaya. Malungkot kasi kahit anong sabihin ko, di ko parin mababago yung katotohanang PINAGPALIT ako :) Ang bitter!!!!! haha pero it's part.. Okay lang maging bitter at sumama ang loob.. Meaning minahal ko kasi xa ng walang reserba at totoong-totoo. Nilet go ko na xa and I know he's much happier now :) me? happy rin and contented..

There are some regrets... mga what ifs... what if I stayed with that man who made me feel special before my ex came to my life? Masaya ba kami sana ngayon? May anak na siguro ako sakanya ngayon.. haha (JOKE!) pero kidding aside..wasted time with the wrong one is a missed opportunity to be with the right one. If you're reading this (my special man before you, ex), I want to say sorry... Sorry for leaving you and reaching out again when I failed.. I'm sorry... for letting you hear all my sorrows and absorbing all the pain... Yet I want you to live your life and don't mind me... di mo ako responsibilidad... Thank you... for being there in my toughest days... for all the advice.. haha.. expert ka jan ;) THANK YOU sa lahat :) If the time is right and we feel right about each other I hope we can make it too.. but if not, you will always be my human diary :) my best hug and smirnoff buddy (kahit pinapanood mo lang ako).

I need to forgive myself from loving the wrong person. Now I'm hoping the best for them and the best for me :) Anyways I'm so much blessed with my family, friends and in my career.. Tama na muna yun :) The right man will come and stay. Period! haha..

Letting Go Be like

 “what does letting go actually look like?“. 

Letting go is a mere feeling of letting things happen no matter how bad the situation is and a hope that everything will be okay afterwards. By this, we tend to believe that the Universe will give that POWER to change our lives so it will make sense in the future.

When you find yourself attached, remember that 'letting go' is not 'getting rid' or 'throwing away'. It is just like holding a clock and letting go of it doesn't mean that we need to throw it. It is something about the way we grasp the clock. There is no point in throwing it because it is a good clock after all. It keeps good times and not heavy to carry around. All we need to do it to lay it aside, put it down gently, pick it up again when we need to see the time then lay it aside when necessary.  

But 'How do we let go?' Well for me, you just have to let go. Yes we will get so much frustrated at first but we need to accept the fact that the pain demands to be felt and we need to get used to it. If you try to analyze letting go in detail, you will just caught yourself making it too complicated. It is not something that you need to figure out by words but on something you actually did. There will be time in your life that you will get tired of suffering and overthinking. By then, your mind and body will just voluntarily seek to find something that will make you happy and contented again. Yes, you will get lost in the process but you need to keep on track and have faith that everything will be just fine. It is time to love yourself again.

Japanese people tend to put broken pieces together with gold just to remind us that there's still beauty in brokenness. Never fail to fall apart because it represents opportunity to rebuild yourself the way you wish you'd been all along.

It is not about what letting go looks like.  It is about what it feels like.  It is the release of the attachment to a certain outcome.  We cannot control the manifestation and the timing.  We CAN control our thoughts and the need to force or control the outcome.  We CAN let go and believe that everything is always working towards our highest and greatest good in perfect peace.

Don't Give Your Love To Anyone!

I don’t want to use the word “love” far too casually in my life. I think some have mistreated the word. Love is powerful, it is profound, it is a word that builds and enriches. Yet love is not some simple relief to mend wounds, it is so much more than that, and deserves to be so much more than that.

Don’t often use the word love out of desperation just because you are afraid of losing something that was never really for you to begin with. The desire to express deep affection may cheapened the word, I’m telling you.

But that’s not the way things work.

I’ve been through several attempts to build a true forever-like relationship with some guys I used to love and ended in pain. I know the feeling of driving home alone with a heavy heart, wondering when the reality of the situation would sink in and the overwhelming sense of isolation would build its walls around me. I know the feeling when the presence or absence of the sun does not determine the greyness of the skies (wow! haha). No amount of pain is insignificant. And though we try to make it less than what it is, we can’t do anything because the reality is sometimes, life is filled with loneliness. This is a hard thing to accept, and often something we don’t want to believe about a world created by a loving God.

However, I believe Jesus knew this better than any of us.

Indeed I’m lost…but I was made this way to be found J

Love yourself first so you know what kind of love you deserve…

Today is I Love Myself Day!

Cheers!

SALAMAT SA ALAALA

Wag kang mag alala
kaya ko na tumayo mag isa
ayusin ang sarili, itikom ang bibig..
walang masakit na salita sa saaking labi
at simulang yakapin ang sarili..

SALAMAT.. sa alaala..
lumuluhang kahapon..
at sa konting panahon
wala nang muling papatak
sarili ko muna ang iisipin..

Kailangan na masanay muling mag isa..

Ako muna ang magmamahal sa sarili ko
hahanapin kung saan patungo..
magpapaagos sa daloy ng buhay
maghahanap ng mga kasagutan..

SALAMAT.. sa alaala
lumuluhang kahapon..
at sa konting panahon.
wala na muling papatak
sarili ko muna ang iisipin sa ngayon

kailangan na masanay muling mag isa..

An Open Letter To Mr You

It was way back before the thing called “us” when I intended to plan my life out based on what I want to see myself in the future. I thought I got everything figured out. Then, you entered unexpectedly in the most unexpected way and time. There was just something missing that I can see in your eyes. I guess that was the reason I let myself to be with you. Then you got broken. I got so obsessed in fixing you that I broke myself in the process. I depended so much in you that I didn’t notice I let my life revolved around you. You and only for you.

When you came, I didn’t even notice that I’m a product of a broken family. I tend to believe that it was you who made me changed my idea about marriage and family. Since then, you became my home. You are my home. You made everyday felt a little better and lighter.

With how you threw those words, even though you said you don’t mean it, something inside me is saying that you are starting to slip away. Too paranoid? Yes. I don’t want to dig even further because I don’t want us to end up hurting each other. But it’s troubling me... I know you are trying your best to be faithful and trying your best to do your duty to me as my partner. To all your efforts, I really want to say thank you. They are very much well appreciated. But in case you can’t feel the love anymore and someone already took my place in your heart, I want to know her.. I want to see the reason WHY you chose to forget our foundation of love because of her.. If you are not inlove yet, I want to know the reason why she made you that confused. Am I not enough?

But if your love is real, please give me the assurance of being your only one. Honestly I dont want your silly jokes of having an affair with another woman or your questions about you having someone else and how will I react to it. At the back of my head it seems that that you're trying to prepare me for something similar to your jokes. I know I have lots of attitudes that you don't like and I'm not the prettiest girl you know. But I think you know very well how much I love you and how desperate I am to find that one true relationship. My innermost desire of having someone who will never leave me and how I wish it was you already because for now, I'm so tired of trying :(

An Open Letter To The Man Who Unexpectedly Came To My Life

We’re just been with one another for a short period of time but it feels like a lifetime because so much has changed to our lives.

Nung makasama kita sa training, especially nung “beast barracks” phase, never akong nagka-crush sau… Di kita napansin, basta ang alam ko lang, mabait ka at gentleman unlike sa iba… Sa totoo lang hindi ko nga alam yung exact moment na napansin kong special ka…(sorry!) Recognize na tau noon nung I started giving you some some sweet attention… Chat kahit ilang rooms away ka lang, first picture together, first sentinel partners, first movie together na tau lang, first kain sa labas, first byahe pauwi sa Pampanga….halos lahat ng first nandun na..! haha. Sabi nga:

"The most powerful symptom of love is a tenderness which becomes at times almost insupportable." - Victor Hugo

Di naging madali satin magsimula. All of a sudden lahat na ng tao sa paligid tinatanong kung ano daw ba tayo. First time kong madeny ng harap-harapan at makarinig ng jokes na tagos talaga. Ngayon ko lang sasabihin sayo na naisip ko din noon na sukuan ka na lang…na siguro darating din yung taong hindi ako itatago at ipagmamalaki ako… pero everytime I was about to let you go, there’s something inside na di ka kayang pakawalan. At the end of the day masaya ako na kasama kita. Yung feeling na ayaw kong makita ang  sarili ko na di ka kasama. Yung feeling na willing akong mag take risk kasi alam kong ikaw ang gusto ko… kung masaktan man ako sa huli e okay lang..no regret.

Dumating din tau sa phase na may ibang tao who tried to win us back. However, we chose to stay. Thank you daddey..!

Despite the trials - we have made each other stronger. You have changed who I am and I attribute much of who I am now, to you. You have made me happier, stronger - you have also given me the cherished gift of your love and support in my times of pain. Salamat sa sobrang dami ng times na pinunasan mo mga luha ko sa mata at yakapin ako for comfort..I swear those memories gave you 100% pogi points..! haha

You’re not my first love but you came to be my greatest love - you always have been, you are strong - you are honest and critical. I might say half-jokingly that you're my better half some times - but you really and truly are.

You are one of the reasons why I keep on working, just to keep moving from day to day. You gave me a reason to truly live, to truly push myself beyond limits and even see myself with you years from now. You've given me a place and arms to cry in, to laugh in, and to grow in.

I am sorry that I can not always give you all the things you so richly deserve – and what I can give for now is the time that was left after a long tiring day sa office. To express how much I miss you and to let you feel that I’m with you kahit we’re miles away from each other. To let you feel that you can still be here with me. And be your mommey no matter what.

My gift to you is this - my expression of how much I truly value you, cherish you and how grateful I am - in spite of all the hard times – kabaliwan ko.. at sa mga times na sinasaktan ko lang sarili ko… you’re still there… we are way too far and uncertain of what will happen next... panghahawakan ko mga sinabi mo… I know you’re such a good man daddey… And very thankful ako to have you in my life…

Thank you for being who you are.

Thank you for being with me.

Thank you for loving me.

Thank you for letting me love you in return.

Isip_Ipis.

ISIP IPIS SA PROFESSION OF ARMS

"...They reject their rights to live where they choose, to say what they think and to dress as they like.."- Military Professionalism.

Eto nanaman,, Isip-ipis signing in...musta na po kayo? After 15 months of absence, eto na po si Isip-ipis: handa na para paglingkuran ang ating pinaka-mamahal na bansa!

I just can't imagine noon ay isa lamang akong "care-free" civilian na walang ibang gawin kundi magpayabang sa facebook at magpaka -girly sa buhay. Gigising sa umaga titingin sa salamin at titignan kung may epekto sa pinahid kagabi na pampa-puti.. Maliligo at mag aayos for more than 30 mins. Papasok sa trabaho, uupo sa harap ng computer, aalis ng hapon, gigimik ng gabi at uuwi sa bahay maliligo at matutulog. Basically ganito ang buhay ko noon....PERO! noon yun...

Ngayon gigising sa maingay na buggle ng "reveille" (military term ng buggle para sa pag gising ng mga tulog na cadete)  ng 0400H maliligo ng 5 mins magbibihis ng 3 mins, tatakbo ng 5 km uuwi sa barracks, maglilinis, mag pa-plantsa ng uniforms, mag tuturo ng mga very- lax na lower class, sisigaw, pagtitripan ang lower class, tatawa, kakain, mag- aaral, magpapalakas, mag di-drills at kung ano-ano pang iba pang pwedeng gawin. Matatapos ang araw ko ng isa paring buggle na tinatawag naming "taps" (military term ng buggle para sa pag tulog). Basically eto ang buhay ko ngayon bilang recognized na cadete. Medyo madali na compare nung mga unang araw ko dito dahil after 1 year ng training namin, naituro na ang lahat ng pwedeng ituro saamin upang maging isang responsableng cadete at disiplinadong opisyal sa hinaharap.

Ang lahat ng ito ay hindi madali para saakin. At lahat ng pinagdaanan ko dito ay pawang mga ala-ala na lamang na isasapuso at habang buhay kong pagsasalamatan dahil ang mga ala-alang iyon ang nag silbing daan para mahubog ang bagong ako na masasabi kong mas angat ako sa mga ordinaryong taong kasing edad ko ngayon.

Minsan naiinggit din ako sa mga kaibigan kong civilian sa tuwing nakikita kong nag papaka saya sila sa buhay nila..samantalang ako ay nililimitahan ng mga rules and regulation ng organisasyong ito…pero on the other hand naiisip ko din na “pwede ko din namang magawa ang mga nagawa nila palabas ko ee..”  Yun lang at malamang ay hindi nila kayang gawin ang mga gawa ko ditto sa loob ng training.

Ngayon any masasabi kong masaya na ako sa buhay ko…at least ngayon may foresight ako kung ano ang pwede ko pang maabot sa hinaharap..Who knows? Si Isip ipis ay maging piloto diba? Pwede din naman maging Logistician o radar officer? Ah basta sa ngayon eto napo si isip ipis…closer of becomming great for the Filipino people and for the country!

Signing off.. babye! 

Buhay Empleyado ni Isip-Ipis

Dati ay isa lang akong College Student na nag-aaral ng mabuti humihingi ng baon at naglalasing kasama ng mga barkada pero ngayon,,wow! Empleyado na po ako..!

Masaya pag sumasahod ka na, may pera ka at nabibili mo na ang gusto mo, di man lahat pero halos lahat :) dati ang favorite day ko ay Saturday at Sunday pero ngayon masaya ako ng 15th at 30th day of the month! Masaya pag nakakatulong ka sa pamilya at maaasahan ka na nila..

Naging Virtual Assistant ako sa isang realtor sa California at Florida. Parang call center ang peg pero ito kasi more sa emails at bank transactions. Napakahirap maging VA, unang-una sa araw-araw na ginawa ng Diyos, (i mean gabi-gabi pala) ay puro amerikano ang kausap ko so bumabaha po ng dugo sa cubicle ko..! (haha) pangalawa: konting mali mo lang may penalty sa p*tang in*ng banko na yan kaya ang outcome ay self pity at hiya kay boss. May kalakihan ang sahod ko noon pero di ako nakapag-ipon masyado kasi enjoy na enjoy ang bawat sentimo ng sahod ko noon.. Dumating yung tym na nawalan ako ng self worth at parang gusto kong ayusin ang buhay ko..so after more than 6 months umalis ako sa ganung klaseng buhay.

Here comes my second job, as Accounting Assistant..wow sosyal ng pangalan..!(haha) pero unlike sa pagiging VA ko, minimum lang sahod ko..PERO! dito i learned so much about business. Parang magic nga kasi sa work ko nakaroon ako ng laptop,iphone at nakapag aral ako ng MBA. Di ko masasabing masaya ako di ko rin masasabing unsatisfied pero neutral lang ang feeling. Dito kakilala ko iba't ibang uri ng tao at kung pano ko sila itrato at sekreto na lang,,! Di ko namamalayan lagpas na ako ng one year dito at parang nawawalan nanaman ako ng self worth..

Sa ngayon, February 13, 2014 ay kasalukuyan akong napapraning kung nakapasa kaya ako sa pinag-examan kong another career..This time something different at sobrang hirap pero sana lang makapasa ako.

Life is all about acceptance at making the best of what you have. Kung puro inggit at insecurities ang meron sa puso mo, di ka aasenso at di ka mag gogrow..To friends out there don't live with somebody's life.. I mean do what you want and express yourself..Madami akong kilala na until now stagnant sa life kahit madami nang pera..bakit kaya? kasi wala pa silang napo-prove na nagawa nila para sa sarili nila at para sa mga taong mahal nila.. Di ko namang sinasabing may naprove na ko pero atleast i made things based on my own will at i tasted every consequences at prices of my decisions. Yup this is Isip-Ipis at this is how employment changed me and my perceptions in life. Goodluck to all of us!!

SINO BA ANG TUNAY NA MATALINO??

Ano nga ba ang ibig sabihin ng pagiging matalino at paano mo masasabing matalino ang kausap mo? Bakit may mga taong kahit kakapanganak pa lang e sinasabihan na matalino sila? At ano nga ba ang koneksyon ng nunal sa ulo, balunbalunan, pisngi, noo at kung saan-saan para mahulaan ang kapalaran, kakayahan at ang magiging asawa ng isang tao??(sino nga ba ang nagpa-uso nyan?? Hanepshit!!hinayupak siya!!!) Bakit ang mga aso, ipis, pusa at iba pang mga hayop ay walang nunal? Bukod nga ba sa spirit e nunal din ang basihan ng pagiging unique ng mga tao sa iba pang nilalang dito sa mundo?hmmmnn..

sabi nga sa wikang ingles,, "we spend our lives believing that everything happens for a reason, when in reality, we just give reason for everything that happens.."( Kris Aquino: TaAmah!) Oo,tama... marami na akong nakilala na sinisi sa tadhana ang kapalaran nila..PERO-ang tanong ni Isip Ipis: " KAILAN PA DUMATING SI TADHANA AT NAGSABING TOTOO SIYA?at sadyang mapaglaro??" hmmn,,, aba,,playful pala si Destiny kung sakali..makipaglaro kaya ako ng chess sa kanya??

SA totoo lang, wala naman talagang mahirap intindihin as long as...(ten tenenen tenen) my utak ka.. Oo..ung literal..may UTAK. Kung may kakayahan kang mag isip, kahit gaano kaliit ang utak...kahit sabihin na nating kasing liit ng sa ipis, lamok, kuto, garapata, langgam o (sige,,lakihan natin ng konti)...sa manok ay yakang yaka mong sagutan ng difficult questions sa statistics, accounting at calculus...(huwaaattt??!!) hwag kang mamangha..maniwala ka..

sabi nga nanaman sa wikang ingles.."it's not on what you have...it's on how you do on what you have" 

USAPING ASO NI ISIP-IPIS..

Dahil jan, pupunta tayo sa usaping aso.. Oo..ang mga cutie cutes at nakakta-cutes na mga aso.. my isang researcher,, si Brian Hare na kung saan trip gumawa ng experiment sa mga katalinuhn ng mga hayop.. may dalwang cups..yung isa may lamang pagkain..(hindi ako sure kung spagetti or chicken cordon blue) at yung isa wala.. Ngayon,,tinitigan nya ng malufette yung aso na tipong umaalab at nanlilisik...habang tinituro yung cup na may laman.. Alam mo ang nangyari?? Pinuntahan nung aso ung tinuturo ni pareng Hare,,galing!!<*clap! clap! clap!*>..

ngayon...sinubukan nya yun sa mga chimpanzees na may 98.6% ng ating genes.. Aba,,parang tao na ang size ng utak nila PERO- sa di inaasahang pag kakataon,, kahit paulit-ulit titigan ni Hare ang may laman na cup...at kahit literal na apoy..(Oo,,,apoy!!) at usok ang lumabas sa tenga at ilong nya na halos mag kulay sile ang kanyang mukha...siya ay natapos na sawi at ang masaklap pa,,,tinawanan lang ng mga unggoy ang kaawa-awang si Hare(AAAaaay..jemar: sori boy!)

Bilang pampalubag loob, hinanapan na lamang niya ng explanation ang kalunos-lunos na pangyayari.. Sabi nya..(in slang),"dogs are students of human movements" ang aso kasi ay good observer...yung tipong kayang bilanginang muta mo sa mata..at gaya ni madam Auring,,marunong din silang mang hula...OOOppss! hindi ng kapalaran kundi ng nararamdaman ng isang tao... tumitingin sila sa mata ng tao,,,saan ito nakatingin at ano ang ibig sabihin ng kanilang mga tingin..kung natatakot,, nakakaloko,,nanlalambing,,naaawa,,nanlalait at marami pang iba..

Eto..kung nakikita nilang takot ka sa kanila...aba...feeing nila di na sila simpleng aso kundi mga leon at nanlalapa ng tao...(grrrr...)at kung naisipan mo pang tumakbo..nakku!!patay kang bata ka..PERO-kung ipapakita mong di ka takot sa kanila at siyempre karespe-respeto ka,,,hmmmnn..iba nang usapanyan...sa una,,magtatapang tapang lang ang mga yan..taposs..go,,,atras para di halatang takot din sila..galing!

Alam mo ba ang sikreto kung paano mapapaamo ang mga ibat-ibang uri ng aso??kahit anong ugali nila kahit sila yung tipong kumikitil ng buhay ng kapwa aso at tao walang kawala dito.. Ayon kay ninong Cesar Millan,,tulad ng tao, kilangan din ng mga aso ang discipline,exercise at affection..Sabi nya,,(IN SLANG ULIT) "they need a very simple routine: exercise,food,work then reward " nang paulit-ulit,ulit,ulit,ulit..(kulet!)Oo...you need to be makulet...yes...makulet!!in order for them to follow you..hmmnn..

at dito na nagtatapos ang isang makabuluhang talakayan..

Sana'y natulungan ka ni Isip-Ipis..

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MALUFETTE QUOTES NI PARENG BOB ONG!!

Marami na ang nag tatanong kung saan ako kumukuha ng natatanging galing....yess!!...ang saya-saya ko na sana..pero hindi pa doon nag tatapos ang lahat.."saan daw ako kumukuha ng natatanging galing...."sa kalokohan" hmmn..maliban kela newton,fleming at armstrong na nag turo saakin kung paano magmura,,nanjan din naman si Bob Ong para mag bigay saakin ng words of WISDOM..Oo,,,siya nga,,,siya ang aking kababata,kapitbahay,bestfrend,ex at future...(Uooooooyy)...sa panaginip..hehe..kahit ako MISMO sabik na xang makita...marami pa siguro akong ipopost tungkol sakanya sa mga susunod na araw,,,pero iiwanan ko muna kayo ng mga malulufette nyang quotes..

enjoy!!

Mga quotes ni BOB ONG.

1. "Lahat naman ng tao sumeseryoso pagtinamaan ng pagmamahal. Yun nga lang,
hindi lahat matibay para sa temptasyon."

2. "Gamitin ang puso para alagaan ang taong malapit sayo. Gamitin ang utak
para alagaan ang sarili mo."

3. "Huwag mong bitawan ang bagay na hindi mo kayang makitang hawakan ng iba.
"

4. "Huwag mong hawakan kung alam mong bibitawan mo lang."

5. "Huwag na huwag ka hahawak kapag alam mong may hawak ka na."

6. "Parang elevator lang yan eh, bakit mo pagsisiksikan ung sarili mo kung
walang pwesto para sayo. Eh meron naman hagdan, ayaw mo lang pansinin."

7. "Kung maghihintay ka nang ng lalandi sayo, walang mangyayari sa buhay
mo.. Dapat lumandi ka din."

8. "Pag may mahal ka at ayaw sayo, hayaan mo. Malay mo sa mga susunod na
araw ayaw mo na din sa kanya, naunahan ka lang."

9. "Hiwalayan na kung di ka na masaya. Walang gamot sa tanga kundi
pagkukusa."

10. "Pag hindi ka mahal ng mahal mo wag ka magreklamo. Kasi may mga tao rin
na di mo mahal pero mahal ka. Kaya quits lang."

11. "Bakit ba ayaw matulog ng mga bata sa tanghali? alam ba nilang pag
natuto silang umibig e hindi na sila makakatulog kahit gusto nila?

12. "Hindi lungkot o takot ang mahirap sa pag-iisa kundi ang pagtanggap na
sa bilyon-bilyong tao sa mundo, wala man lang nakipaglaban upang makasama
ka."

13. "Kung nagmahal ka ng taong di dapat at nasaktan ka, wag mong sisihin ang
puso mo. Tumitibok lng yan para mag-supply ng dugo sa katawan mo. Ngayon,
kung magaling ka sa anatomy at ang sisisihin mo naman ay ang hypothalamus mo
na kumokontrol ng emotions mo, mali ka pa rin! Bakit? Utang na loob! Wag
mong isisi sa body organs mo ang mga sama ng loob mo sa buhay! Tandaan mo:
magiging masaya ka lang kung matututo kang tanggapin na hindi ang puso,
utak, atay o bituka mo ang may kasalanan sa lahat ng nangyari sayo, kundi
IKAW mismo!"

14. "nalaman kong hindi final exam ang passing rate ng buhay. hindi ito
multiple choice, identification, true or false, enumeration or fill-in-the-
blanks na sinasagutan kundi essay na isinusulat araw-araw. Huhusgahan ito
hindi base sa kung tama o mali ang sagot, kundi base sa kung may kabuluhan
ang mga isinulat o wala. Allowed ang erasures."

15. "Wag magmadali sa pag-aasawa. Tatlo, lima, sampung taon sa hinaharap,
mag-iiba pa ang pamantayan mo at maiisip mong di pala tamang pumili ng
kapareha dahil lang sa kaboses niya si Debbie Gibson o magaling
mag-breakdance. Totoong mas importante ang kalooban ng tao higit anuman. Sa
paglipas ng panahon, maging ang mga crush ng bayan sa eskwelahan e
nagmumukha ring pandesal. Maniwala ka."

16. "ayokong nasasanay sa mga bagay na pwede namang wala sa buhay ko "

17. "hinahanap mo nga ba ako o ang kawalan ko?"

18. "hindi dahil sa hindi mo naiintindihan ang isang bagay ay
kasinungalingan na ito. at hindi lahat ng kaya mong intindihin ay
katotohanan. "

19. "Kumain ka na ng siopao na may palamang pusa o maglakad sa bubog nang
nakayapak, pero wag na wag kang susubok mag-drugs. Kung hindi mo kayang
umiwas, humingi ka ng tulong sa mga magulang mo dahil alam nila kung saan
ang mga murang supplier at hindi ka nila iisahan."

20. "Mag-aral maigi. Kung titigil ka sa pag-aaral, manghihinayang ka
pagtanda mo dahil hindi mo naranasan ang kakaibang ligayang dulot ng mga
araw na walang pasok o suspendido ang klase o absent ang teacher. (Haaay,
sarap!)."

21. "Mangarap ka at abutin mo. Wag mong sisihin ang sira mong pamilya,
palpak mong syota, pilay mong tuta, o mga lumilipad na ipis. Kung may
pagkukulang sa'yo mga magulang mo, pwde kang manisi at maging rebelde.
Tumigil ka sa pag-aaral, mag-asawa ka, mag-drugs ka, magpakulay ka ng buhok
sa kili-kili. Sa bandang huli, ikaw din ang biktima. Rebeldeng walang
napatunayan at bait sa sarili."

PURPOSE DRIVEN LIFE QUOTES by Rick Warren

A friend offered me to read THE PURPOSE DRIVEN LIFE..well,,,This Book is a valuable one..
As i read every lines from Rick Warren, i can't help myself to reflect and ask myself "why"... Why I used to live my life as what God don't see me to be?? what is my real purpose?? and why God gave me this kind of life??

I hope this will also help you to build  your spiritual quotient ..God bless!!

1. We are product of our past, but we don't have to be prisoners of it.
2. Those who hurt you in the past cannot continue to hurt you now unless you hold on to to the pain through resentment.
3. Fear-driven people often miss great opportunities, instead they play it safe,avoiding risk and trying to maintain a status.
4. Well formed love vanishes fear.
5. Possession only provides temporary happiness.
6. God says that the most valuable in life are not things.
7. Those who follow the crowd usually get lost in it.
8. We are made to have meanings.
9. Without God, life has no purpose, with out purpose,life has no meaning.
10. The greatest tragedy is not death but life without meaning.
11. A pretentious showy life is is an empty life; a plain and simple life is a full life.
12. What ultimately matters most will not be what others say about your life but what God says.
13. Eternal Legacy.
14. God has planted eternity in human hearts.
15. You will live hundred years on earth but you will spend forever to eternity.
16. From chronicle of Narnia: "for us this is the end of all stories..but for them,it was only the beginning of the real story. all their life in this world..had only been the cover and title page: now at last they were beginning chapter one of the Great Story, which no one on earth has read.which goes on forever and in which every chapter is better than the one before."
17. We don't see things as they are, wen see them as we are.
18. The way you see your life,shapes your life.
19. How do you define life determines your destiny
20. Life is a test.
21. The very important test is how you act when you can't feel God's presence.
22. Nothing is insignificant to your life.
23. If you don't do it, you never take care of it.
24. Those who are trusted with something valuable must show they are worthy of that trust.
25. Money is both test and trust from God..."for every man who has been given much, much will be demanded; from the one who is entrusted much, much will be asked."
26. Life is a test and trust and the more HE gave you, the more responsible He expects you to be..
27. Nothing is insignificant to your life.
28. If you don't it, you never take care of it.
29. Those who are trusted with something valuable must show they are worthy of that trust.

KAPITAN SINO QUOTES ni Bob Ong

1. pare-parehong may kaba sa dibdib, takot na baka sa susunod na tanong e hindi na nIla matapaTAn ang kayabangan ng isat-isa.
2. taga konsumo ng oxygen sa mundo.
3. "wala akong paningin, hindi ako nakakakita ng maskara..kung sino ka talaga, yun lang ang nakikita ko."
4. "..dahil marami ang nagkakagusto sayo nang di ikaw ang nakikita nila kundi ang itsura mo."
5. sabi ni Exupery, "ang pinakamahalagang bagay sa mundo ay hindi nakikita ng mata."
6. hindi alam ng nakakakita kung kelan siya bulag.
7. "mas nakikilala ko ang mundo sa kung ano ito dahil hindi ako mabubulag ng mga anyo."
8. "hindi naman kailangan ng maraming tao para bumuo ng isang mundo e..minsan isang tao lang ang kasama mo,,buo na ang mundong kailangan mo sa habambuhay."
9. "higit ka sa maganda..sa nakikita ng mata at natatanaw ng diwa..higit sa maipipinta ng awit..at malililok ng salita..higit sa malilipad ng pangarap at masisisid ng tula...HIGIT KA SA PINAKAMAGANDANG LIKHA.."(awwwww!)
10. "alam ng tao kung mali ang ginagawa nila pero hindi rin nila ginagawa ang alam nilang tama.."
11. hindi ako naging bayani sa taong mahal ko..
12. magiging bayani ka sa sarili mong buhay..


IDOL PO SI BOB ONG..I LOVE YOU PAPA 'B'!!!!!!
:)

inlove??broken hearted??o wala lang?? eto..basahin mo..mula kay isipi-ipis from the heart!!

1. hindi lahat ng sweet sayo, gusto ka.
2. at hindi lahat ng nilalandi mo ay gusto mo.
3. may mga taong gusto mo na hndi nila alam.
4. at may mga taong may gusto sayo nang di mo rin alam.
5. wag idaan lahat sa jowk o sa tawa..ako na ang nagsasabi sayo,,wala kang mapapala.
6. ang pagmamahal ay natututunan, hindi inborn.
7. hindi lahat ng I Love You ay bukal sa puso.
8. walang taong manhid,,manhid-manhidan lang.
9. hindi porket masaya kayong dalawa ay kayo na nga talaga.
10. hindi lahat ng nag-aaway ay hindi nag mamahalan.
11. hinding-hindi mabubuo ng alak ang nadurog na puso.
12. hinding hindi mabubuhay ng luha ang namamatay na relasyon.(heloo??hindi ka si agua..)
13. isang pilay na relasyon: yung isa nagmamahal,,,yung isa saklay lang..tagaalalay kung baga..
14. hindi lahat ng tumitingin sa iba e hindi na mahal ang jowa.
15. ang mag kaibigan,pwedeng maging mag jowa.
16. ang mag jowa,di pwedeng maging magkaibigan (unless may pagnanasa pa sa isa't isa)
17. (accounting term) DONT ASSUME UNLESS STATED!
18. hindi lahat ng single e di na minamahal.
19. at hindi lahat ng may jowa ay mahal sila.
20. mas maganda ang pinag seselosan kesa nag seselos.
21. hindi lahat ng nakangiti o tumatawa ay masaya.
22. hindi lahat ng nagmamahal ay minamahal din.
23. mas madaling tanggapin na nasasaktan ka dahil tinitiis mo siya kesa nasasaktan ka dahil tinitiis ka nya.
24. ang mga henyo, marunong ding gumamit ng puso (alam din "namin" yun noh..)

quote from tudeen:

25. iba ang salita ng lasing kesa sa salita ng matino.
26. wag kang gagawa ng kagagauhan kung sa bandang huli e ikaw at ikaw din lang ang masasaktan..

(sabi ni isip-ipis:MAGPASIKAT!! <*CLAP CLAP CLAP!*> 2x ) :D

My Greatest Heartbreak Ever..

My parents got separated when I was in 4th grade. I cried, my mother cried, my father cried, and my little brother, who at the time was only in grade two, sat and watched us.

Looking back on the short 10 years of life I’ve had, I can’t say that I’m dissatisfied. In fact, I think that if my parents had stayed together, I wouldn’t be half as happy as I am now. Even though I say that, I cant say that I wasn’t hurt or affected.

I remember crying in the bathroom at school with my 3 friends all hugging me, telling me they were sorry. At the time, none of them knew how it felt. Within the next 3 years, they would. Each of us handled our parents separated differently.

I, being someone who hated to show weakness, pretended nothing had happened. That I didn’t cry myself to sleep at night, that I didn’t miss the other parent when I was at the other’s house and that I didn’t mind when either of the parents moved on to a new significant other.

Carrie, on the other hand, knew her parents had been fighting for years and blew it off when it finally happened. Her reaction simply was, “It was coming sooner or later. At least its over with so I don’t hear them fighting at night anymore.” But as I think about it, I wonder if she felt as heartbroken as I did.

Madison is the one who was affected a lot. Her dad had always been away traveling and her mom had always taken care of her and her sister and after the separation, her daily life barely changed. Madison, is my closest friend out of the 3.

Josephine, compared to the rest of us, took a whole different route. Her life at home wasn’t all that stable to begin with. She had been my friend since grade three and come third year high school, I watched her slowly deteriorate into someone who went out with her older sister to smoke pot frequently.

Slowly I began to realize that every one reacts differently to different things. In my eyes, I’m not sure Josephine acted rationally. But then again, I’m not sure I did either. Everyone thinks, acts and is different. People may be alike, but not the same.

My family may be broken, but that doesn't mean that I will give up on striving and stop dreaming a success in life . And even if my family is broken, it sure as hell doesn’t mean that I am too.

life is not that perfect to everyone..and even no one can say that he lives the way he wants to..

we are somewhat deferent in manners and degree..

so why should I be sad and disappointed when there's a lot of people out there who truly makes me smile..?

koreana

kakainlove!!walufette!!: Korean Mariah Carey 'My All'

RESEARCH:NOON HANGANG NGAYON

RESEARCH: Isang madugong gawain na tipong lahat ng sense organ at bulsa mo e papaduguin nya..

Ito ang definition ko sa salitang research simula pa noong kinder hanggang ngayon..

sa aming subject na marketing research,,nalaman namin na meron palang iba't-ibang klase ito..nandyan ang consumer research,pricing research,promotion research,product research at sales research. yun! yung mga yun! Dahil follower ko ang instructor ko dito,,,si Dokwayne <*applause*>hmmmn..wala akong sasabihing negatibo TUNGKOL DITO maliban sa salitang NEGATIBO...

nasa stage kami ng paghahanap ng literature atgusto ko sanang sabihin lahat ng topics ng mga classmates ko..

• reducing fats-related anxiety
• food supplement consumption in dagupan city
• consumer consumption of motor riders and preferences
• comparative prices of supermarkets in dagupan city
• profitability of generic medicines
• the buyer behavior of mothers on milk- formula

Bakit ko sinasabi ang mga ito?!! SIMPLE lang...tinatry ko langbaka kasi sa paghahanap ng mga kaklase ko ng 20 literatures e mapadpad sila sa site ko....<*ubo*> SIKAT!!!

ang tanong ng bayan: "BAKIT ISIP IPIS????!!!"